What would I do without my husband? I would be a different person, that's for sure. He's been our spiritual leader over these 9 years of marriage, but he's much more than that! He's worked hard to provide our living expenses and has supported and loved me through everything I've gone through over the years....and I've been through a lot! This past year, 2o11 was the first year he's not known me as a "college girl" and he was there for that crazy transition. I had a great education over the years and I enjoyed the many jobs I had as well. Student teaching was a struggle, but my awesome, amazing husband stepped up and became my study partner, part-time paper writer, homework grader, and even stayed up when I pulled all-nighters many a time! Many days I would come home stressed, crying and saying that I wanted to quit; he would hold me, pray with me and tell me that we would pull through this struggle and overcome this time with God's help. He was a rock....my rock!! All this, while I was pregnant, too!
As different as we are in some ways (because I wouldn't climb the Grand Teton's as much as he wouldn't be a school teacher) we find ways to make it work, and we have fun doing it...most of the time anyway! lol We are similar, however when it comes to most other decisions, such as our pets and vacations. We always agree on where to go, whether out west to Wyoming or out to sea on a cruise...they're always full of memories. We take time to visit our families and friends, though I feel we could do better. We love each and every one of them! We take time to go walking through the woods on a cold, snowy night (see picture), and to read our favorite books together. One way I can say we are similar, without a single doubt, is how much we want a child of our own to hold, care for and raise as strong, Christian human beings! Bobby will no doubt be a hands-on father, who will take time to care for, love and support his child(ren). His insight, knowledge, and forethought on things put him above the average! Of course, I'm biased...but, I don't feel I'm off too much on this one. He enjoys children (I mean, he did envision building an outdoor adventure program with kids in mind). The way he treats his nieces and nephews, holding, cuddling and giving Godly advice to them, shows me that he'd be a fantastic father!!
I love Bobby and all he is to me, and I wouldn't trade him for the world!!